20th weeks!

Baby is the size of banana!

Finally 50% of the pregnancy journey is done!

Had a scare this week when i was near home

and suddenly i had a massive cramp 

that it took me so much efforts to walk home.

Immediately laid on the sofa straight

and thankfully the cramp subsides in about 10minutes.

Informed husband that we may want to contact the gynae for advise.

This is when i missed the Singapore's effective medical system,

im sure if im in Singapore, i can quickly find a gynae for a scan.

However, we are in france.

Husband called the clinic to be informed that there is no direct number to reach the gynae.

Husband had to email the gynae and waited for her reply.

The only advise from the clinic was to go to the a&e.

Since the cramp left and i really dont wish to spend hours queuing in a&e,

i told husband that we will wait for the email reply.

In the end few hours later, we finally received the reply from the gynae.

A super short reply that it could be colic, a prescription for a medicine

and to go a&e if pain persists.

Not even suggesting a need for a follow up scan or appointment etc...

Oh well, i didnt feel unwell thereafter,

so we didnt do any follow up.

I hope baby is doing fine and we are going to see her in 2 weeks...

On a side note,
we went to watch our first official theatre: La Famille Semianyki 
Is actually husband's birthday gift from his mum
because i think threatre is really expensive
and mostly in french that i wont fully understand.
Anyway, for this show, there was only 1 show available in november..

The show was not as funny as i expected
despite branded as funny clowns from russian
and definitely not as family-orient/kids friendly as they advertised.
We had to go off 5 minutes before the show ended
as husband had to rush to  the airport for his flight to New dehli.
And yes, it was husband's first offical work trip
I will be happy to tag along but is to India?!
So, is fine that i give it a missed, hehe.
Well, it will be me and baby alone for 4 days, woohoo!

19th weeks and happy birthday to me!

Baby is the size of mango!

According to many websites, i should be feeling the baby movements this week.

But sadly, i did not feel any movements..

Maybe because i do not know how it feels like

or because of my layers of fats..

Still waiting patiently for the baby girl to give me some moves...

Nothing much happens to the pregnancy

except of my dying self confidence..

I was expecting some pregnancy glow

but all i feel is like a fat and ugly penguin

with horrible dry and white hair..

Sigh, it is so hard to feel the confidence

whenever i stared into the mirror and see a haggard woman..

I guess im those women who dont look great during pregnancy

and need work hard after delivery to get back in shape.

For now, im still avoiding the weighing scale

but know that im probably putting too much weigh again.

Anyway, a photo for the week:

It is also the week of my birthday!

Since husband is having a crazy period of work

and me, being a lazy fat penguin,

we didnt plan for any trip as per previous years.

And because of my current status and size,

the usual gifts of clothings/accessories do not apply/interest me.

Which i think is wonderful to save move 

since the best birthday gift is in my tummy!

On my actual birthday, i made a simple korean bbq at home

and we ended with a simple cake.

Apart from a body shop beauty set,

Husband got me what i requested as gift:

 A craftoholic cape: good for winter to stay cozy and as breastfeeding cover

maternity overall: i think its still acceptable for pregnant women

For my birthday weekend,

husband bought me to a chinese steamboat

that was soooo good..

Is crazy how the pregnancy made me love spicy stuff

and the spicy sichuan soup base was good,

i ended up sweating so much due to the soup and 

generally because of the baby radiator in me.

The price was reasonable for the buffet spread

and it was really popular (almost all asians) that we need a reservations.

I guess we will return again for my steamboat craving..

Nothing much happening for my 34th birthday

and the only wish is for us and baby to be healthy!

18th weeks

Baby is the size of artichoke!

Similar symptoms as of the 17th week:

- acnes on neck 

- motion sickness 

- backache when in the same position for too long
I guess the biggest scare was that i had cramps for the whole of sunday
that i forced myself to be on bed rest for the day.
lucky the cramps didnt lasts till the next day
and there was no other signs, phew...
Maybe is just that i have been moving things around the home
to make space for baby
and sort of overworked myself.

Over the weekend,
we went down to some baby shops
to try out some strollers.
I missed the convenience in Singapore,
where it is so easy to find baby shops..
Oh well, at least husband managed to find a few.
Although the shop did not carry a lot of brands for strollers,
it was a good experience to physically try out a few..

It was hard to decide the type of stroller that we want because:
- I will buy an ergocarrier as the metro is really not stroller friendly.
That i foresee myself using the carrier unless is around home or w husband.
And the carrier is not cheap, im not sure we want spend more for stroller
that we lmay not use often.
- We dont drive and mainly depends on metro to go around+small home 
If the stroller is too heavy and big, we will have problem in metros and strorage.
- Car seat is required at times.
We dont drive, so car seats will only be needed when we are with family / friends.
There are many strollers that sells car seats separately 
or requires us to choose car seat attachment before leaving home. 
- expected due date in april:
Not so cold like winter but may need winter accessories

Our fav stroller will probably be Strokke scoot.
Its super heavy (12.5kg) and super expensive (600+eur)
without car seat or winter accessories.
but it looks great and smooth to push
maybe if there is a 50% sales, we will buy it

My next interest was Chicco Trio urban plus (300eur)

and the most interesting part is the seat is changable into a bassinet.

Having a bassinet will be helpful when we visit in-laws 

for baby to have a nap and a place.

And the price also includes the car seat!

However, husband read alot of bad review about the wheels

and i read about the bassinet issues.

Some websites recommend a duo strollers (with car seat)

instead of trio stroller (with car seat and bassinet)

because most bassinet can be used only till 6 months baby.

and car seats can actually serve the same function.

So, with that in mind,

i got interested in Chicco activ 3

because reviews were great

and there was a time limited super discount

including car seat was only 388 eur (U.P. 600eurs)

Problem, its a jogger stroller..

means stable and good wheels

but huge and heavy.

Since we wont buy it now,

we wont be able to benefit from the discount.

I guess the most likely choice will be

Graco mirage plus + car seat (200Eurs)

because its simple, light and not expensive.

We still have plenty of time to choose

and hope winter sales will give us some good deals...

Pre-natal massage

I love massage!!
Practically any kind of massage.
Thanks to my  in laws,
I tried a facial and massage in Paris.
For the facial, the lady spoke too much
and for the massage, it lacks the hard aching kneading..
The shiok aching feeling.
Anyway, i dont know whether is because both were groupon
thats why is not so good.
Oh to add on, i even tried shampoo here
but it didnt have the asian head and shoulder massage with it. 
And since the pricing is in euros,
i always feel that massage here is expensive
especially when i compare to the prices in south east asia.

Every yearly trip back to Singapore means is massage time!
I even got husband hooked on this yearly massage routine,
that he did like daily massage in bali because it was so cheap...
However, this year, we had to give massage a miss
because im early in pregnancy
and google says no massage for 1st trimester.
So, i definitely want husband to suffer along with me, haha.
It helped that we visited hongkong this year,
less temptation of cheap massage.

However, with the pregnancy,
i was really aching all over that i badly need a massage.
During my jb trip,
i was disappointed again to know that prenatal massage is doable
after 4 months of pregnancy.
Arrrgh, i was so desparate that i went for hair shampoo sessions
so to enjoy a little of the head and shoulder massage.
Google says i should wait till 2nd trimester for prenatal massage
so i tortured husband for giving me massages.
Finally, im in my 17th week 
and i managed to find a prenatal massage near home!

The experience is defintely different from a regular massage.
Im unsure whether is is also because im not in asian.
The kneading is soft but at times, she did press some 'shiok' aching points.
The biggest difference is the massage is done with me on my side,
supported by a maternity pillow
and no fixed position for my limbs.
I did hope to have strong pressure on my aching back,
yet, it was so relaxing that i almost felt asleep.
I have never really tried to sleep in massages,
to fully enjoy the massage 
and sometimes too pain to sleep, haha.

Im having some post massage aches
that i guess is normal?
It was 60eur / 60mins
that i think ill be going back again for next few months...

17th weeks + scan

Baby is the size of turnip!

Symptoms of the week:

- acnes on neck 

- motion sickness 

- backache when in the same position for too long

- energy up and down on days

Finally is time to meet the baby again!

And the week to find our whether is a boy or girl..

As usual, my preference is a boy

and the husband's preference is a girl.

Before we left, we told baby to open his/her legs for the scan,

i even drank 7-up before the scan to make sure baby has sugar rush!

And, the results is...

Our baby girl was sleeping soundly with her legs wide open!

A bit unglam but at least the job was done.

The cyst that was found in the last scan grew

but its positioned in a way that does not affect our girl

and gynae does not seems bothered by it.

Actually husband and gynae totally forgot about cyst

and i had to ask for her to scan for it..

Crazily, she gave us photos of the cyst 

instead of the usual baby photos 

that i think that is pointless to post.

Gained 2 kg since the last appointment

and gynae says i should only gain 1.5kg

(which i didnt know)

Oh and my blood test results from early oct 

indicated i need watch my sugar level..

must be the daily bubble tea from sg, hehe.

Shall go for blood test again and hope is back to lower level...

The greatest good news is trisomy 21 test results is back!

Apparently the risk for down symdrome is 1:1200

so is really low risk and need not go for further test!

Woohoo!!!

We get to hear the strong heartbeat of baby

and i guess we are just happy that mother and baby are healthy!

I should be able to feel baby movements soon

or at least it should starts in few weeks

I cant wait to feel the girl

but i hope she wont drive me crazy with karate kicks!

16th Week

Baby is size of avocado!

Motion sickness still continues 
that im not a big fan of taking any form of transportation.
Sadly, we have a wedding to attend this weekend (out of paris).
With the memories of my wedding that lasted till 5am,
with panadols i  hope i willl survive the day well.

Sleep has improved!
I dont know is it because now i request for bigger area on bed
or im getting used to the tummy
i spend more time lying on 1 side
then needing to turn every hour.
Please let this comfort lasts for as long as possible.

Oh, but my nose started to be blocked last night.
I actually have difficulty to breathe 
that i dreamt of having difficulty to breathe!
Hopefully is just a passing phrase...

Other symptims:
- Acnes in the neck still continues..
(Much worse than photos can show)

- To a certain extend, i think energy level is getting better
- Cant stand in the same position for too long
- aching back 
Finally, im able to book prenatal massage now!!

The happiest news is that we did not received the call from the gynae.
It has been close to 3 weeks since my trisomy 21 test
and no call means good news!
All will be known on the upcoming appointment next week!
Cant wait to see baby and hope that we can know the gender...

JB trip with the mummies

I cant remember the last trip that i went with the girls.
Probably it was many years ago to bintan for massage.
Crazily, we managed to squeeze in a trip this year to go JB!
We didnt really planned much except that it will be a time of shopping,
nuaing, doing relaxing without the husbands and kids!
Thankfully, the girls helped to plan and book the trip,
that i get to be the pregnant free loader.

Day 1: 
I cant remember the last time that i went to JB.
Luckily, yat has been a regular in JB
that we had no problem to travel from sg to jb.
Her colleague even drew her a map of our hotel and city sq mall, so cute.
We went for lunch at Old town after the customs
and then went to check into our hotel.

Travelling is really different 
with a breastfeeding mum, a pregnant woman and another mum, 
everything is slow and we get to do aunty's things like buy special bread, haha.
We went to shop a little since it was close to mid autumn festival,
there was so many mooncakes and lantern standup stores.
We had a nice teabreak at some korean cafe.
The 2 mummies then went for a massage and i had to burn some time walking alone
since i cant do any massage yet.

Then, it was time for dinner,
strangely i love spicy food since i got pregnant,
so we went for korean spicy dinner!
We managed to buy some water and snacks from the shop opp hotel
and rested in the room with some random TV shows...

Day 2:

Apparently, the latest trend is to go cafe hoping in JB.

We googled for cafes to go for breakfast but it seems that most of them only starts at noon.

We managed to find this place with good hua-ying food

but its more kopitiam than cafe.

We took an uber over and realise uber is so cheap in JB.

The kopitiam was crowded with no proper queuing system

but we managed to get a table quickly.

We then uber back to the shopping mall,

took an appointment at the hair salon and went shopping.

The mummies were nice to give in my request for kenny rogers for lunch

but its really not good, 

i need the old kenny rogers back in singapore!

Initially, i planned to dye my hair

but the shop asked me whether im superstitious about dyeing my hair during early pregnancy,

so i gave up the idea and went to do a normal hair treatment.

Since i was done fast,

i even had time to go tabaoed gong cha for us.

We shopped a little more before ended up in a chinese resto for dinner.

The mummies still have place to tabaoed korean chicken wings for supper!

Day 3:

We munched on snacks and bread for breakfast before checking out late from the hotel.

Nothing was planned for the day except for last minute shopping.

We had lunch at the hongkong cafe and it was time to head home.

Im unsure whether because im still tired from my all the travelling.

I felt so tired after arriving at woodlands customs that i took a taxi home

and spent the rest of the day and next day resting at home.

Not sure when all of us can go to a trip together again

but hopefully our friendship stays strong for the many years to come...